resonate
In the end it all comes to just one thing, you and me….
Came across this video on youtube recently, and it’s resonating a lot with me. Over the last couple of years, i’ve managed to alienate quite a few people from my life. Better or worse, my only excuse… i’m not perfect, just human.
Yes i’m human!!!! i get angry and i throw fits and i say things which i don’t mean… sometimes it gets really bad, but that’s also part of who i am?! why can’t they accept me in that too? Accepting the loving, caring and devoted side of me isn’t a problem? then why not the complete me?
Someone recently asked me whether i was an easy person to live with.
My answer.. no, i’m not.The thing is, even though i very simple demands from my partner, they’re not that easy to fulfill. All i ever wanted was someone who’d accept me for all that i am, make me want to be a better person because of them, who would accept the fact that i respect my parents above all else and share that respect.
I’ve got my good days, and i’ve got my bad days, but does mean i’m not fit to be with? Does that mean you leave and never look back?
I hate what i’ve become… What’s worse is, i still believe in us.


December 18th, 2008 at 8:21 pm
and I always thought am alone in this field
I found very few people understand me, very few people can cope up with me, and many people just can’t handle me…
Life and its never ending issues?
Take Cares
December 19th, 2008 at 4:03 am
Well
I am sorry to disagree with that.
If people don’t understand you then why don’t you understand people. Why to behave like a narcissist?
December 19th, 2008 at 3:14 pm
afaque: that’s the thing… after giving my most towards understanding people, i still end up with the same response…
it sucks.
December 20th, 2008 at 7:09 pm
i think u r no different most people…chill man…I think you are taking this too seriously…if somebody really wants to be with you…that person would understand…and try and adjust…
you would need to do the same…for that person…and thats what a relationship is all about…
December 21st, 2008 at 3:37 am
Hey Mansoor,
what stops u, to go after her?
if thats what u really want.
most of the time i hear, Get over it.. move on… but the heart has reason the mind can’t understand.
Gr. Joyce
December 23rd, 2008 at 1:28 pm
joyce: what’s stopping me? im not sure… somedays, its the fact that i can’t have her after what’s been said and done, and others it’s because i’m unsure if i want her back at all… then some other days, i’m just wonder what the hell is even going on u know…
but yea, the heart and the mind are totally out of sync here…
December 23rd, 2008 at 1:30 pm
UTP: dude, in one part of my consciousness, i am willing to try and adjust.. while in another part.. i’m not. if im so conflicted, how i can i expect the other to try?
but yea, i guess i am thinking about it too much…
December 30th, 2008 at 1:07 am
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December 31st, 2008 at 9:51 am
That’s the problem with words uttered in anger, they sort of wipe off every nice thing u have said or done. And i also feel that it’s ur behaviour and the other person’s reaction which define the quality of a relationship. Bcz life would be more filled with blase and stressful moments and situations than blissful ones. Sort of the test of a tea bag’s strength in hot water??? Well obviously u want her, that’s why u r thinking about her even now after a while…..and the other feeling of not being sure wether this is wot u want, it’s a coping mechanism….
i said it pheley bhee, give it a shot….
January 5th, 2009 at 11:07 pm
too much dependency is always harmful. You should always draw a fine line in every relation. A line which saves you to get hurt. That’s the best way to deal with others. Why to give in for others when they are also mortal?
January 5th, 2009 at 11:48 pm
tanzilla: i end up wiping up a whole lot of stuff these days… :S
adnan: honestly boloon? cuz i dont think that’s anyway to “live” life.. being safe and not getting hurt. yes, the hurt sucks and it’s long and dark, but u know what… those perfect moments that i did have… even if for a bit.. for really worth it.
January 9th, 2009 at 11:33 pm
But don’t just get stuck in those “Golden Moments”. As it says,”Forget the rest, take the next”