is someone who needs to be pampered with someone who needs to pamper.

How much would you agree with that? Personally, i believe that maybe that was the reason many relationships of the past survived the test of time, and why many relationships now dont.

Womens lib, feminism, egoistic attitudes and political correctness have all but destroyed the delicate balance between pampering your loved one and being pampered.  To a lot of people, even acknowledging this fact hints weakness, when in-fact, it is the dismissal of the fact itself which i believe to be the biggest weakness of them all.

How many ‘puppy love’ stories have you seen around you, in the movies  or read in books where gifts, sweet nothings and outrageous displays of emotion have joined two people together in a stronger that love itself? Before you dismiss it as fiction or luck, think about it. It is the basic need, the ultimate want of the human spirit, yet in the name of independent thinking, we let go of it and much rather prefer feeling lonely…..

To all feminists i say, you wield the ultimate power! In the words of Xill-e-Ilahi

“the almighty has yet to create a female form without the capability to bewitch males with her eye”